Love

There has been a lot of things in my life that have caused me fear... persuiting future goals... moving away from my family... but all of those things i eventually got over.. but the scariest thing in this world to me is being in love... yes i have be in "love" thinking that the guy i was dating would eventually be my husband.. and at that very moment that seemed like a reality.. but as i have grown and matured as a woman i realize that eventually we would be no more.. and it would be in the best interests of both of us.... as i am looking back at my life i realize that i have grown a great deal... God has truly shown me different things and given me a new look at life... a dear friend asked me when did i think i would be ready for a serious relationship and i realized that this was the goal i was working for... but I didnt know when i had reached that point... is it something that you enter to hoping that you'll get it right... and if you do then your good.. but if by chance you are not equipted to emotionally love someone that you really care about..is it worth everyone involved being hurt????